Ah, okay. I wondered why you wanted to make that switch when you were already an adult and had been calling him Lucky already for years, right? (My mom married my step-father when I was 14, and he was always Jud, if especially because we all knew my biological dad is an asshole, so at the announcement of the marriage Jud said to me, "I hope I can be a better father to you," and I looked straight at him and said, "I don't want a father." He reminded me of this conversation some years later, and I laughed with mortification at my bitchy teenage self, but he said that was actually quite helpful to him in knowing what kind of relationship he should and shouldn't attempt.)
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Date: 2012-05-10 03:27 pm (UTC)