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SOMETIMES I FAIL TO READ BOOKS.

I make the attempt! But for whatever reason, I can't get through them. And it's kind of ludicrous, because of what I do manage to get through.

Recently [livejournal.com profile] jonaht recommended a book to me called Heads In Beds, about the hospitality industry. And it really is quite interesting reading when it's about the hospitality industry, though a) it makes me think all humans are disgusting and b) it makes me glad I rarely stay in hotels. But it's really an autobiography of one man's journey through the hospitality industry -- and that wouldn't be a problem except he's kind of a bro. He's a little douchey, a little bro-y, and there came a point where I just couldn't go on. (Also I think he's kind of racist.) But it was a good recommendation because normally, authorial issues aside, that kind of book is right up my street.

The other book I have recently been unable to finish fills me with more regret. I think I found it on a list of "trashy beach reads with real literary value"; it's called The Lord Won't Mind by Gordon Merrick, the first volume in what's called the Peter-Charlie trilogy. The Lord Won't Mind is a really important piece of literature, actually, one of the first major works of literature to portray gay relationships as both positive and unlikely to end in death.

When I was describing it to someone the other day I said, "You know how when you were in your early teens you heard about how scandalous Lady Chatterly's Lover was, so you went and found it in the library and it turned out to be super tame? This is the book you were looking for." It is chockablock full of nearly continuous gay sex, to which I have no objection though it did make reading it on the bus somewhat awkward. There are little kids around, yo, and sometimes they try to read what I'm reading, I don't pretend to understand why.

But yes. The Lord Won't Mind actually is really important and at least according to many reviews on many sites it was a huge touchstone for queer kids in the seventies and remains so for queer kids without access to much other queer media. And I get that, and it's very well written, so I respect this book.

But man, Charlie is an asshole. He's a racist, rapey, partner-beating asshole. I'm told that by the end of the book he's learning about what an asshole he is, and that's good, but I didn't have the fortitude to keep reading about a sweet, desperately naive kid getting entangled with this giant asshole.

Apparently, you guys, I have a problem with assholes in books.

I did manage to finish Andrew Caldwell's "Their Last Suppers", which is a book about the last meals of famous historical figures. (And, for some reason, John Candy. Not that he's not awesome, but...he's not exactly Napoleon or Alexander the Great.) I have to admit I wasn't that impressed with this one either; the historical blurbs that precede the menus aren't as much about the food of the era, as I'd hoped they would be, but rather are sort of high-school level historical essays on the people in question. The recipes themselves are often rather shoddily assembled, with poor cooking instructions which frequently ignore how to plate or consume the more unusual dishes. There were also three women, out of 21 profiles, which seemed a bit sketch.

So it has not been a banner week for books. But I've got another little stack of books waiting for me to read, and a lot of travel coming up, so we shall see.

Date: 2013-10-11 07:50 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Yes. Reading fanfiction on the subway is also frequently mega-awkward.

Date: 2013-10-12 02:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] irishcaelan.livejournal.com
The Lord Won't Mind was greatly important in it's day but yes, he's a massive though, and I read the sequel, it was somewhat redemptive but barely.

Date: 2013-10-12 02:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] irishcaelan.livejournal.com
LOL - that was supposed to have an insert epithet here in there after the massive - oh LJ, how you vex me.

Date: 2013-10-13 12:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] copperbadge.livejournal.com
I have to admit I'd really like to know what happens to Peter and Charlie but I don't want to have to read the books to find out :D Sadly there is a dearth of good summaries online. But the epilogue at the end, which I flipped to, was nicely informative.

Date: 2013-10-12 04:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gaedhal.livejournal.com
Also a little creepy that it's pretty autobiographical, with Merrick the
Charlie character. The closeted producer is based on Moss Hart, who
was actually Merrick's lover in the 1940's -- Merrick was in the original
cast of "The Man Who Came To Dinner," which Hart co-wrote.

Date: 2013-10-13 12:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] copperbadge.livejournal.com
I didn't get as far as Charlie's acting career, but that's interesting. I'm given to understand that Charlie actually starts to reform and be a little more self-aware by the end of the book, which makes his behavior at the beginning read rather like a confessional on Merrick's part, I suppose.

Date: 2013-10-12 01:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] etharei.livejournal.com
Yeah I've found that my tolerance for fictional assholes has gone way down from when I was a kid. Or maybe it's knowing that there are tons of other books I can read without needing to put up with infuriating characters, whereas when I was younger (and especially before access to the internets) I was happy to get new things to read at all.

Date: 2013-10-13 12:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] copperbadge.livejournal.com
I don't think my tolerance for them has ever been particularly high, but certainly I identify them much faster than I used to....

Date: 2013-10-12 04:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jonaht.livejournal.com
Thanks for giving the book a try. :D Sorry you didn't like it, but I'm glad you tried it.

Date: 2013-10-13 12:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] copperbadge.livejournal.com
Thanks for recommending it! It was very promising to start...

Date: 2013-10-12 05:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ellid.livejournal.com
Here's my take on The Lord Won't Mind. (http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/03/10/1073232/-Books-So-Bad-They-re-Good-A-Novel-of-Unconventional-Love) Agreed that it's really important, but man oh man as a piece of literature? AAAAIIEEEEEE

Date: 2013-10-13 12:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] copperbadge.livejournal.com
When I read the book I had a slightly different bead on one or two things, but yeah, the overall sense is the same. Respect it as a trailblazer, but know its flaws.

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