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Jan. 13th, 2011 09:20 am![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
Ter still has an LJ, a memorial LJ now, and I still have emails and comment notifications from her in a file in my Gmail, as I have for Kiki, another great literary friend who passed in the last few years, both of them well before they ought to have.
The other day I stumbled over a personal website that a man's family had preserved after he was killed in a car accident. They made two changes: one, they put up a front page explaining the website and what had happened, and two, they put a link to a page with his "last words", which were an email to a friend. I don't think his family is terribly computer literate; in his "last words" they included his friend's quoted email and his sig line, which okay, totally made me snortlaugh. If I die and someone does that to me I don't want my sig to be remembered as the last thing I ever said.
I'm planning on being young and alive forever, though, so I'm not too fussed.
In all seriousness, I do sometimes think about (read: make a baffled face at) the fact that I've made something and put it out there in the world that will be around after I'm gone. I mean, there's the Cafe, maybe, but also the tangible books I've published. Copies of Nameless have survived maulings by dogs (no kidding, it's an awesome story involving a husky who picked the book specifically to attack) and giant house fires, so at least a few will probably outlast me. Especially given I can't seem to go a month without some form of bodily harm.
Christian recently linked to an article called Cyberspace When You're Dead, which I admit I haven't read in full because a) it's really long and b) it makes me want to make a to-do list of shit I have to set up before I die and c) it's kind of freaky and I have too much else to do this month to deal with my own mortality as well. But it's got some interesting things to say.
WELL THIS HAS BEEN A CHEERY FUCKING BLOGPOST.
In closing, an email exchange from last night:
E: Point of interest: the past tense of "pet" is not "pet."
Sam: The past tense of "pet" is "cremains".